Quite frankly, the only thing that motivates us to continue living is the idea that we are worth something. And this need to constantly validate our idea of “self” just to keep living is what keeps us from reaching our potential. Real quick, ask yourself: “What am I worth?” Now this is an impractical and difficult question, and by the end of this post you should understand why. For now, think about the answer. This is probably the only question where you are the only person that can determine the answer in a way that's meaningful to you. Sure, you can be influenced by the way others perceive you or the way you want people to see you. But you’re the only one that has to live with and is affected by the answer. Everyone unknowingly faces this question everyday. We have to make a value judgement about what we think about ourselves, and that defines how we feel. And if this turns the wrong way, which it often does, we feel lonely without consciously knowing or admitting it. People tha...